Wedding Planning
If you want perfect wedding you must know why man should not plan a wedding!
Planning Checklist
Mark an "X" when the task is completed!!
Announce Engagement | |
Select Wedding Date | |
Hire wedding consultant/coordinator | |
Determine type of wedding: location, theme, # of guests, formality, time of day | |
Determine budget & how expenses will be shared | |
Buy a daytimer to keep track of appointments & events | |
Develop a record keeping system for payments | |
Create an approximate # guest list | |
Decide if you will be inviting children or not | |
Select and reserve ceremony site | |
Select and book Officiant/Priest/Minister/Rabbi | |
Select and book reception location | |
Select and order bridal gown | |
Determine colour scheme | |
If ceremony or reception is at a home, arrange for any home improvements | |
Obtain, passports, visas, birth certificates, any documents need for travel and/or marriage licenses |
Select and book caterer, if needed | |
Select and book photographer | |
Select wedding party | |
Give wedding party a list of their responsibilities | |
Select and buy attire or bridesmaids & flower girl | |
Select and buy attire for mothers of the bride and groom | |
Select and book ceremony musicians | |
Select and book live band or DJ for reception | |
Select and book videography | |
Select and book florist | |
Register for your wedding gifts (this can be done sooner) |
Schedule fittings for custom made bridesmaids gowns | |
Arrange marriage prep-courses, if necessary | |
Reserve rental items | |
Select and book decorator | |
Finalize an A and B list of guests | |
Select and order invitations and other wedding stationary | |
Set date, time and location for rehearsal dinner | |
Select and book honeymoon night suite | |
Arrange accommodations for out-of-town guests | |
Start planning your honeymoon | |
Shop for your wedding gifts to each other | |
Shop for your wedding gifts to your wedding party | |
Shop for your wedding gifts to your parents | |
Buy shoes, lingerie and accessories for the bride | |
Buy shoes and accessories for the bridesmaids | |
Select and order wedding bands |
Take formal engagement picture | |
Select and order wedding cake | |
Order party favours/bombonniere | |
Select and order decorations | |
Purchase honeymoon attire and luggage | |
Select and book wedding day transportation | |
Start addressing your invitations | |
Plan activities for out-of-town guests (optional) | |
Go on trials and book wedding day hair and makeup. Bring your headpiece and wear a white shirt | |
Obtain marriage license (expires in 3 months) | |
Send out your invitations | |
Select ceremony readers | |
Select ushers to seat your guests | |
Select guest book attendant | |
Select your MC | |
Mail invitations to shower | |
Get photography permit, if needed |
Maintain a record of RSVP's and early wedding gifts | |
Maintain a record of shower gifts and send thank you's | |
Purchase all ceremony and reception accessories: guest book, toasting glasses, garter, ring pillow, etc. | |
Select and reserve wedding attire for all gentlemen | |
Mail invitations to rehearsal dinner | |
Plan bridesmaid luncheon | |
Select your something old, new, borrowed, blue |
Finalize all food and beverages for wedding | |
Finalize all ceremony details with Officiant | |
Finalize all rehearsal arrangements | |
Finalize all floral arrangements | |
Final fittings for yourself and bridesmaids | |
Make a wedding day itinerary | |
Give a copy of the itinerary to your wedding party and vendors | |
Finalize all details with all your vendors | |
Decide order of receiving line and head table setting | |
Contact guest that haven't replied | |
Pick up wedding rings | |
Give photographer a photo checklist | |
Visit reception site for floor plan | |
Create reception seating plan | |
Give musicians a list of your music selection | |
Inform attendants when and where to pick up attire | |
Determine VIP seating for ceremony seating | |
Print out seating cards | |
Pick up honeymoon tickets |
Give caterer/reception venue final tally of guests | |
Pack of your honeymoon | |
Wrap reception flavours/bombonniere | |
Arrange mail collection while you are on honeymoon |
Drop all wedding accessories and decor off at ceremony and reception locations | |
Make sure you bring all gifts that will be handed out at dinner | |
Make sure you have all final payments in envelopes for wedding day | |
Pack over night bag for honeymoon suite | |
Make sure wedding party has their itinerary | |
Make sure gentlemen have black socks | |
Go to church for rehearsal | |
Review VIP seating with ushers at ceremony location |
Most of the details will be on your wedding day itinerary | |
Eat breakfast | |
Pack anything remaining on your "To Bring" list in cars | |
Make sure Maid of Honour has groom's ring and Best Man has bride's ring | |
Make sure you have your marriage license, photo permit and Special Occasions Permit, if needed | |
Put your engagement ring on your right hand | |
Use your wedding day itinerary to get you through the day on some sort of trouble | |
Remember to look around and soak in the views of the day you planned so long and hard for. |